Workout Wednesday the cardio debate

It’s amazing to believe that even in the world of fitness people hold opposite opinions when it comes to cardio. I know! Who knew?

I just assumed probably like you that everyone is to hit the cardio regiments hard but that’s not actually the case. I had been doing about 30 minutes of cardio every time I visited the gym but apparently for the results I’m wanting tonnes of cardio may not be the thing. For me I’m
looking to lose inches and build muscle. Ten minutes of cardio or 15 at the most warms up the body but doesn’t cause the body to start feeding off it’s muscle. Now I am no expert at all. I’m just going by my own personal exploration on the subject so you should always speak to a fitness professional for advice. This is what I learned from mine. When you do a solid workout your body naturally feeds off itself to help build and protect those growing muscles. Of course cardio is always good for the heart but I don’t drive so I get a lot of natural cardio which is why this type of workout works for me.

This past week has been a struggle. Birthday weeks always seem to be and then I got my brothers sore throat so it’s rest time. I don’t think it’s a good idea to work out when you’re not feeling well. Just make sure you get back up on that horse once you’re back on your feet.

To cardio or not to cardio, I guess all depends on what type of results you’re looking for. Let’s put it this way, cardio is never a bad thing so ask your fitness professional for help!

Keep up the good fight if you are in a fitness program. If you have yet to commit, that’s okay, there is always tomorrow.

B.I.T.C

Editor Mary Ellen Monk

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It’s My Birthday B.I.T.C’s

Hey Readers!


Thought I’d take the weekend off my blog! I mean it is my 39th Birthday! Fine 40. Ok 43. That’s it! That’s as high as I’m going!

See you Wednesday for “Workout Wednesday”

Thanks for all the love! Follow me on Instagram for my photo diary @bruceinthecity

B.I.T.C

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The Body Core

I have a love/hate relationship with the plank! Mary Ellen Monk

I can’t believe I’m actually doing it! You know I used to really hate working out! Somehow something has really changed. I have notice some real benefits from working out this time around. I’m sleeping better. I’m feeling emotionally more positive which is huge for me as I struggle with chronic panic, anxiety, and depression. I am toning up and burning away my extra fat. It’s a really exciting feeling. This week my trainer helped me focus on my core which I quickly learned is a lazy little fucker. He put me through a workout routine this week which was focused on strengthening my core. Simply put for us beginners, it’s the tummy, the abs, and surrounding muscle groups. This includes the mid and lower back as well and how the strength of your core will dictate the health of your back and your ability to have stamina and strength. No core, no good! Here are a few core exercises I love to hate, but really smash your core into submission!

Plank
The definitive core exercise. The plank involves minimal movement but maximal effort, requiring you to support your body on your forearms and toes while holding your body in a straight line from your shoulders to your ankles. You can make it easier by resting on your knees, or harder by extending your arms so you’re supported by your hands.

Dead bug

Lie on your back with your arms extended straight up towards the ceiling, and your legs raised with your knees bent at 90°. Lower your right arm and left leg at the same time until they are hovering just above the floor, then return to the starting position. Then do the same with the opposite limbs.

Boat

Sit on the floor with your knees bent. Lean back slightly, keeping your back straight, and hold your arms out in front of you as you raise your feet off the ground with your legs together. If you can, extend your legs so they are straight and your body forms a V shape. You can also raise your arms and spread your legs to make the hold harder.

1 Plank Time 30sec Rest 0 sec

2 Dead bug Reps 10 Rest 0 sec

3 Boat Time 30sec Rest 1 min

There you go! Some basic exercises that will kick start that sleepy core and start you on a journey of strength and body confidence. Keep making small goals and taking small steps.

“Working out is a journey, not a destination.” Bruce in the City

B.I.T.C

Editor Mary Ellen Monk

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Workin It

“In 1615 Isaac Bedard landed in Quebec and from him sprouted one of the largest families in Quebec. My mom landed in Quebec in 1952 from Bristol england, so Im a zebra, half Quebecois half Brit” FITNESS Trainer David Bedard.

When I decided to get back to working out I honestly didn’t think I would be getting myself a trainer. I’m the kind of guy when it comes to working out, that would stay inside the lines. I’ve never been very comfortable in the gym. All those big guys smashing their big ass built bodies and strutting for who I could never figure out. None of my friends were really into working out so other than being very fit as a street dancer and performer I didn’t really do anything once that part of my life changed. I was super lucky when recently I met this guy, David Bedard a personal trainer at GoodLife Fitness. He’s a highly motivated personal trainer with over 6 years experience in designing and monitoring exercise programs based on client needs, goals, abilities, and anatomy. David has an ability to apply useful, tactful, and safe advice to individuals regarding their fitness program and related equipment.

He has a strong understanding of vital functions and vital processes of the human body. He’s energetic and motivating, always encouraging clients to reach maximum performance. He’s a solid communicator and his interpersonal skills are amazing when consulting clients about their achievements and challenges!
I’m so excited to have David at my side, literally. He gets right down on the floor with me and pushes me to new heights. I’m not saying everyone needs a trainer but if you decide to get one I hope they are as good as mine. I’m not sure how much room he has for new clients but he can be reached along with other great trainers at GoodLife Fitness. I hope you will all enjoy my fitness journey every Wednesday here on my blog “Bruce in the City-What’s the Buzz?!”
See you Wednesday readers! You can also follow me on Instagram @bruceinthecity for more great photos!

B.I.T.C

Editor: Mary Ellen Monk

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Workout Wednesday

Here we go!

For you, it’s week one of my fitness journey. For me, I’ve been prepping for months.
My plan wasn’t to blog about my lifestyle change but as my program of fitness unfolded I thought blogging about it may be the best way to keep me on track. What better way to reach your goals but to have your peers hold you accountable, in the nicest way of course.
This week is just a quick overview so you can get an idea of what I’m up to and if you like you can copy my program. It may be a good place to start.
Pick a gym you feel comfortable with. My fitness club of choice is GoodLife. I’ve been a member for many years. You’re probably wondering why am I not in the best shape ever? Well as life is, it’s complicated. It’s too easy to let life get in the way. Well the noise of life anyway. Between work, relationships, health issues, etc. it’s not an easy road of commitment but it’s not over until it’s over so you’ve always got to get back up on that horse. Now is my time!
I got myself a trainer named Dave. He’s around my age and I thought for me that is important for many reasons. He did a physical test with me to see where I was at. Apparently I did okay. I’ll share the actual results next Wednesday. It will be interesting to watch as things improve like the number of push ups, sit ups, etc.
I began by putting together my own program using GoodLifes convenient machines. They have nine machines numbered one through nine and the idea is to follow each machine to help strengthen those larger core muscles to quickly begin improving strength. I’ll post these machines for you next Wednesday as well.
With all the data Dave took from me he is putting together a workout program that will hopefully move my fitness health into the right direction. Not to mention get my glutes bootylicious!
I’ll be seeing him tomorrow for my official first session following the assessment meeting.
I’m pretty pumped and hope you will get some encouragement to start your own fitness program.

Bruce in the City

A note from my Editor:

Good for you! It’s important as we get older to remember that our bodies need more care now than ever before. I also started a weight loss program this year on January 2. My goal is to lose 15 pounds by July 1 (25 weeks away). I am at 10 weeks and have lost 6.5 lbs. It’s not a lot but it is a slow and healthy pace and I’ve already dropped a size in my pants which I am thrilled with. For someone small like me (5’1″) it doesn’t take much to notice a difference. So if I keep on this same trajectory I will meet my goal. I started with some simple things like a 4 km walk three times per week and I cut out all unnatural sugars. My big downfall is potato chips so it was the one thing that I still allow myself to have as a treat on Saturday nights when we have movie night with the boys. I knew if I tried to give up everything then I would fail. Good luck to you on your journey. I can’t wait to follow along with your progress.
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ME

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Fetish Fair prt 2

Well the day finally arrived. I had my ticket for the fetish fair and I was all pumped to experience something way outside my comfort zone. A buddy of mine who has much more experience in the fetish world came along as an unofficial body guard. Literally! The event was taking place at The Phoenix. An amazing club and concert venue. The security and staff were exceptional and very inviting. I’ve seen a few concerts there and they are always thorough yet welcoming.
Men and woman from all over gathered in the bag checking area inside the club. They began checking their bags and winter gear and began dressing up with their night’s fetish ensembles. All kinds of amazingly strange outfits. Some looking like people from the Blue Men theatre show, others covered in latex outfits. There were a lot of fellows in leather, and jock straps were plenty. The event was being hosted by North Bound Leather, Toronto’s number one fetish and leather boutique.
You are probably wondering what I wore. Well I was pretty tame compared to others but I did have on the new collar I had purchased for the event and a leather bracelet I wore on my right arm (which I found out after meant I was submissive). Lol, I had no idea! No wonder all those big muscle men were looking at me like I was a piece of steak at a summer barbecue.
I have to admit the attention was nice. The DJ was awesome. Trance and dance grooves thumped from the amazing sound system.
As I investigated the corridors and rooms in the theatre I felt like I was in an episode of Queer as Folk, which was actually filmed here in Toronto. I honestly wish I could tell you in greater detail what fetishes I was observing but I think this time pictures will speak louder than words. I can tell you there was hot candle wax and wipes happening on the main stage. In one room people seemed to be admiring each others get ups and in another there was this stand that both men and woman were propped up on experiencing various physical stimuli. Did I mention this was not an exclusive men’s event? It was really exciting to see woman in dominant roles with men and other woman. The sharing of power and sensation. Both Anna and Peter from North Bound Leather were there. It was difficult to get a photo with them as people had them surrounded. I felt like I was trying to get a photo with David Bowie and Grace Jones. I never did get that photo. Better luck next time I guess. I did have a blast and met some really great men and women that in spite of the ongoing misunderstandings by more conservative people, these folks were a really engaging group of people. I’ve never met so many friendly people in any other club environment. No bullshit. No attitudes! Just people expressing themselves sensually, powerfully, and organically with one another. Would I go again? If I did I would certainly wear a better outfit! Stay tuned to find out!
Hey maybe you can look into your own relationship and think a bit outside the box. Have you ever thought what it might be like to spank your big tough husband or let him blindfold you and tickle you with ice and hot wax?
Life’s too short. Have fun with each other in a safe environment. You just never know how close the experience will help you become.

Kink on you crazy sexy people!

Bruce in the City

Editor Mary Ellen Monk

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Workout Wednesday

Hey Brucesters!

I’m super excited to announce my new workout adventure blog series starting next Wednesday! I got myself a kickass trainer and I’m ready to smash the ceiling on getting in shape!

Bruce in the City

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Leather Bound!

Hey Brucesters!

And now on to something a little different.
The world of kink!
As the song states, Where Do I Begin….?
The fascinating part about living in a metropolis is the diversity you find. People from all walks of life gather to experience what the big city has to offer. Sometimes it’s the latest coffee house and the gathering of friends there and sometimes it’s an all night fetish fair!
You guys should know me by now. I’m not going to walk away from a challenge and recently I’ve been certainly challenged by some of my readers to walk on the wild side and see how to get the winter kinks out! This is your opportunity to escape now before your master (that’s me!) takes your hand and leads you down the rabbit hole.
Okay don’t say I didn’t warn you.
Before we get started I just have a really quick (completely unrelated) tail to tell. Yesterday when heading to the village, Church and Wesley, just as I got off the street car there was a big bang up the street from where I was. It kind of startled me and so I said to the fellow standing beside me at the street light, “What was that?” He turned to me and ever so calmly said, “Well either someone just farted or their car just backfired!” Outstanding I thought. And then I just laughed my head off crossing the street. People must have thought I had lost my mind. It ended up he was the night time security guard for the BMO at Church and Alexander, also in the village but I digress!
So kink! I’m going to assume like me, many of you know very little about the world of kink. I think it’s fair to say most of you have heard of 50 Shades of Grey? This is only one of many Hollywood movies and docs that have opened the Pandora’s box of adult role play. It was on such a night when my Pandora’s box was opened. A buddy of mine dared me to do a blog about something totally different for me and blindly I said sure. I had already eaten horse so how much more different can a blog review be?
He told me to go to a shop called North Bound Leather. I was to get help with buying a collar. Okay? I had a collar for my dog already. Apparently this collar was meant for me. Well, woof! I was like, “No way! You’re not getting me in a collar!” The back and forth chicken comments and the double dog dare you was heavy in the air when I finally said fine. Where is this den of delectables? Nicholas Street, just one corner west of Yonge and Wesley. There it was in all of its leather and lace. Oh yes, and latex. I wasn’t sure what to expect when I walked in but dark and dingy came to mind. I pictured an old pervert behind the counter staring judgingly as if to murmur under his stale breath, “There’s no turning back now”. Amazingly it wasn’t like that at all. It was a very lovely leather boutique. I mean I knew I wasn’t in Kansas anymore but I also didn’t feel too uncomfortable when from the length of the room greetings came from a sexy bearded and harnessed fellow who introduced himself as Peter. It didn’t take me long to realize he was the leather model featured on the large posters directly above me on the walls. “How can I help you?”, he asked. Oh, let me count the ways I thought almost audibly.
Just then a fabulously dressed woman walked into our space and introduced herself as the owner or one half of a duet that owned the shop. Then of course a maiden in the distance working on some displays also greeted me with a smile and a nod. I wondered if they instinctively knew that I was new.
I nervously asked for what I was needing. A collar. A leather collar. Oh my god I just couldn’t believe those words were coming out of my mouth. Without hesitation Peter, my new best friend, took me to the collar wall. There was a collar wall. I had no idea there was going to be so many options. He helped me try some on and we finally came up with one that fit because of course my neck is as thick as a football player. I thought it was pretty badass and he was even eager to show me a leash accessory that went well with it just in case I had someone to lead me along at this kink event I was invited to attend. I passed on the leash this time lol. Of course when he put it on me and was holding the other end I did have a brief moment of, lead on you bearded stallion!
They make all of their leather goods in shop and they also do custom work. This is no run of the mill leather shop. It really is pretty impressive and also this is no cheap hobby, lifestyle, or role play. These harnesses, collars, and accessories are made of top quality leathers. The owner was a lot of fun and really made my first visit to her shop really welcoming and exciting. I learned that her shop North Bound Leather was actually the host to the event I was planning on blogging about. I did end up purchasing my first badass leather collar and even bought a pair of long yellow sport socks for my buddy that talked me into going. Next stop, the kink event at the Phoenix…..

To be continued

Bruce in the City

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March Beard

Let’s not waste time! Here is my choice for beard of March! Sexy,Stylish,Strong and Saavy! This is Fabinho!

Head over to @bruceinthecity my official Instagram and hit the heart on his post to vote for this sexy stallion.

1 ° I am a bearded old fashioned

2nd Appraiser of a good drink and cigars.

3 ° I love to differ with my bearded friends.

4 ° Whenever I can help the most needy people.

5 ° I love having fun and photographing crazy photos like mine from instagram

Bruce in the City

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Lovin That Bear

You know it’s sort of funny when you think about it. When you’re a blogger, such as I am, your followers (mine over 21,000 registered readers) can get the impression that every living moment is over the top active and fabulous. You all know that isn’t true right? Just like everyone else days can go by at a glacial pace, especially in the winter. We are all doing our damndest to get out of the cold and into something hot and comforting.

Well I was introduced to a trendy little coffee shop by a buddy of mine called Black Bear Espresso. You should give it a visit if you are in the Yonge and College area and want a nice change from the corporate monster with the sea goddess on their cup (I think that’s what it is). I personally think their coffee tastes like designer gasoline. The whole “over the top happiness” is also super invasive. It may work for some but I don’t need to know the emotional well being of the employees who always seem to be shooting and banging stuff around. Also, what’s this need to be steaming our names across the room?

This cozy Black Bear spot offers a more discrete atmosphere to enjoy the sounds of steam without the noise pollution. The coffee and treats are delicious. The artistry of their presentation is lovely. A place to just enjoy being incognito. It’s located right across the street from my favourite movie house (The Carlton). Their pastries are beautifully made and have such a homemade flavour and feel. So when you’re looking for that quiet moment in your day to just sit and take a breather, consider the Black Bear Espresso. You won’t regret it!

Bruce in the City

Edited by Mary Ellen Monk


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